While waiting to pick up a friend at the airport in
Portland, Oregon, I had one of those life-changing experiences that you hear
other people talk about — the kind that sneaks up on you unexpectedly. This one
occurred a mere two feet away from me.
Straining to locate my friend among the passengers
deplaning through the jet way, I noticed a man coming toward me carrying two
light bags. He stopped right next to me to greet his family.
First he motioned to his youngest son (maybe six years
old) as he laid down his bags. They gave each other a long, loving hug. As they
separated enough to look in each other’s face, I heard the father say,
“It’s so
good to see you, son. I missed you so much!” His son smiled somewhat shyly,
averted his eyes and replied softly, “Me, too, Dad!”
Then the man stood up, gazed in the eyes of his oldest
son (maybe nine or ten) and while cupping his son’s face in his hands said,
“You’re already quite the young man. I love you very much, Zach!” They too
hugged a most loving, tender hug.
While this was happening, a baby girl (perhaps one or
one-and-a-half) was squirming excitedly in her mother’s arms, never once taking
her little eyes off the wonderful sight of her returning father. The man said,
“Hi, baby girl!” as he gently took the child from her mother. He quickly kissed
her face all over and then held her close to his chest while rocking her from
side to side. The little girl instantly relaxed and simply laid her head on his
shoulder, motionless in pure contentment.
After several moments, he handed his daughter to his
oldest son and declared, “I’ve saved the best for last!” and proceeded to give
his wife the longest, most passionate kiss I ever remember seeing. He gazed
into her eyes for several seconds and then silently mouthed. “I love you so
much!” They stared at each other’s eyes, beaming big smiles at one another,
while holding both hands.
For an instant they reminded me of newlyweds, but I
knew by the age of their kids that they couldn’t possibly be. I puzzled about
it for a moment then realized how totally engrossed I was in the wonderful
display of unconditional love not more than an arm’s length away from me. I
suddenly felt uncomfortable, as if I was invading something sacred, but was
amazed to hear my own voice nervously ask, “Wow! How long have you two been
married?"
“Been together fourteen years total, married twelve of
those.” he replied, without breaking his gaze from his lovely wife’s face.
“Well then, how long have you been away?” I asked. The man finally turned and
looked at me, still beaming his joyous smile. “Two whole days!”
Two days? I was stunned. By the intensity of the
greeting, I had assumed he’d been gone for at least several weeks – if not
months. I know my expression betrayed me.
I said almost offhandedly, hoping to end my intrusion
with some semblance of grace (and to get back to searching for my friend), “I
hope my marriage is still that passionate after twelve years!”
The man suddenly stopped smiling.
He looked me straight in the eye, and with forcefulness
that burned right into my soul, he told me something that left me a different
person. He told me, “Don’t hope, friend… decide!” Then he flashed me his
wonderful smile again, shook my hand and said, “God bless!”
- By Michael D. Hargrove and Bottom Line Underwriters,
Inc.
Copyright 1997
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